You have probably noticed, that you tend to become a little derogatory about your own body, as you grow older. This is probably because, you are not motivated to make any changes, while some women actually face issues, with their body, and are unhappy, there are others, who look perfectly alright, and still keep belittling themselves.
It’s all around us, and it is important that we shed this annoying habit, and learn to embrace our beauty, by focusing on things that really matter. When you do so, you are happier, more confident and likeable, something that most people will love about you. Below are a few ways in which, you can indeed build a positive attitude towards yourself.
Know your assets
You may not love your eyes, but we are sure, that there are a host of things about you that you may like an focus upon them to feel great and happy about yourself. If you think that you are stuck in a negative mindset, and you are finding it difficult to break away from it, then you should may be make a few calls. Speak wit friend and family, and they will tell you about a few reasons why, you are so great as you are.
Accept compliments gracefully
When people compliment you on your weight, you tend to spiral backwards. You start talking about, how nothing else fits and how you had to struggle into getting into what you are wearing. If someone tells you that you are looking great. Accept it. And feel good about it.
Fat Talk will do you no good
When someone tells you about how much weight they have out on during the winter and the best way in which you can respond is talking about how you have put on weight too, is not really going to help her feel any better. When this topic is touched, simply try and change the topic and talk about something else.
When you are truly dissatisfied with your body, it helps not to dwell over it. Try and work towards making things better. You should not keep thinking about it, and in fact make changes in your diet that will help you get back to a position that you truly enjoy.
So, the next time someone does compliment you, treat it with a thank you and go ahead and feel happy about yourself. There are other ways to feel happy too and those can be decided by speaking with a Registered Holistic Nutritionist, who will advise you on the best diet that needs to be followed. You can also speak with a Homeopath to learn how a few great herbal remedies can indeed turn your life around.